Graham was born December 11, 1796 in Coltrain, Massachussets, to John and Sarah Coltrin. The Coltrin's joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints in its early existence. It appears that most or all of the family joined including John and Sarah. Their children were adults by this point, but they also joined the church. Graham and his wife Anna joined in January of 1831, less than a year after the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints was established.
Graham faced many of the struggles that the early saints were challenged with, including mobs burning down his house, the death of two of his five children, and then around 1835 the death of his wife in Kirtland, Ohio.
Graham also had the privilege of being part of this "Great and Marvelous Work". He was called to serve a mission to Virginia. He worked on both the Kirtland and Nauvoo temples. He was good friends with the Prophet Joseph Smith. He was a pioneer that crossed the plains with his family. His brother, Zebedee, was a member of the first pioneer group that reached the Salt Lake Valley with Brigham Young. Zebedee is also mentioned in Doctrine and Covenants 52:29.
Sometime after the death of Anna, Graham got remarried to Harriet Heckman. They moved to Nauvoo, Illinois and had Five children of their own. Again hardships followed and three of those children died. One in or around Nauvoo, and two after they had settled in Utah.
The cool story I wanted to share takes place in Council Bluffs, Missouri near the Missouri river. At this time many of the saints and settlers of that area were very sick and bed-ridden. The Prophet Joseph asked Graham to help him give blessings. They spent the day traveling from house to house and giving blessings to all those that needed it. At the end of the day Graham asked Joseph if he would cross the river and help give blessings to the sick members of Graham's family. Joseph told him that he did not have the strength to cross. He was too exhausted and needed to get to his own home and get some rest. Then the prophet pulled his handkerchief from his pocket and handed it to Graham. He told Graham "I give you this with my blessing. Take it and rub it over their foreheads and they will be healed. Keep this handkerchief and it will be a bond between you and I in case of sickness in your family. You will always receive a blessing if you ask for it using this handkerchief." Graham took the handkerchief, did as the prophet had instructed him, and they were all healed.
I thought this was an interesting way to show an exercise of faith, and it got me curious if there were other situations or times where something similar had happened. I found two other stories of the prophet giving away his handkerchiefs to heal people. One where a lady asked him to come bless her twin sons. Joseph was too busy at the time, but said he would send somebody. He gave a handkerchief to Wilford Woodruff and told him something very similar to what he told Graham Coltrin, including that the handkerchief will be a bond between you and I. Wilford did as he was told and the boys were healed.
The other story was about Newel and Lydia Knight. Lydia was very sick and asked Newel to see if the Prophet could give her a blessing or at least give them one of his handkerchiefs to rub on her head so that she might be healed. Newel was too afraid to ask the prophet for this thinking he was too busy. So he returned with his own handkerchief and let his wife believe it was from the prophet. Nothing happened and she continued to get more sick. After several days, Newel confessed to his wife and went to the prophet. Joseph did give him a handkerchief, which Newel laid on his wife's head and then Newel gave her a blessing. She was immediately healed.
I thought these were very cool and interesting stories, and I thought that it was neat that our Grandfather was able to have one of these experiences. Graham kept the handkerchief his entire life and when he died, his family cut the handkerchief up and gave a piece to each of his children.
While in Bountiful, Utah, Grahams wife, Harriet gave birth to twins Julie and Julius. Harriet died a couple weeks after that. A couple weeks later the twins died, and a couple weeks after that Graham passed away. They still had two young children living at home. Their youngest daughter went to live with Graham's older Daughters, Lavinna (Who grandma Vinnie was named after) and Sarah (our 4th Great Grandmother; Grandma Vinnie was probably named after her as well. Grandma's full name is Sarah Livinna Baker). Their youngest son, Ether, went to live with Graham's brother Herman.
Ether has a pretty cool story himself that I would also like to share. When he was 18 or 19 Ether became a rider for the pony express. On one particular trip he realized he was being followed by some Indians. That night when he set up camp he realized that there were a lot more than he had first thought and they had surrounded his camp. He tied up his horse, started a fire, and made his bed, believing that would be the night that he would die. He laid down in his bed and stayed awake until the fire burned out. When it got dark he quickly jumped out of bed and wrapped his blanket around a log, so it would look like he was still there. He then grabbed the mail and made his escape by foot. He ran all night long and in the morning he was able to find some other riders that gave him a ride to the next post.
There you have it, some more fun and great stories from our family history. Stay safe and love y'all.
Graham Coltrin
Handkerchief Given to Graham Coltrin by the Prophet Joseph Smith
Relation to Graham Coltin





















